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- Apr. 06, 1992: Families:When Love Is Exhausted
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- TIME--The Weekly Newsmagazine--1992
- Apr. 06, 1992 The Real Power of Vitamins
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- <source>Time Magazine</source>
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- NATION, Page 24
- FAMILIES
- When Love Is Exhausted
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- <p>The abandonment of an elderly Alzheimer's patient highlights the
- pressures on those who care the most
- </p>
- <p>By J. Madeleine Nash/Chicago--With reporting by Elizabeth
- Rudulph/New York and Lynn Steinberg/Seattle
- </p>
- <p> It was just another Saturday night at the Coeur d'Alene
- Greyhound Park in Post Falls, Idaho. The dogs had returned to
- their kennels. The boisterous stands had nearly emptied.
- Custodian Lou Tonani was making his usual rounds when he
- happened upon an old man in a wheelchair, a bag of diapers
- dangling by his side. He wore a brand-new sweatsuit, blue
- bedroom slippers and a baseball cap emblazoned with the words
- PROUD TO BE AMERICAN. Twin typewritten notes, carefully taped
- to opposite sides of the wheelchair, identified him as "John
- King," a retired farmer suffering from Alzheimer's disease and
- requiring round-the-clock nursing care. All labels had been cut
- from his clothing and identifying marks scoured from his
- wheelchair. Who on earth, Tonani wondered, had left the man
- there, and why?
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- <p> From the start, it seemed like a classic case of "grandpa
- dumping." Some stressed-out family member, experts conjectured,
- had suddenly broken under the pressure of caring for a confused
- and ailing spouse or parent. "It's shocking and terrible," says
- University of Chicago geriatrician Dr. Christine Cassel, "but
- it doesn't surprise me at all. The families of Alzheimer's
- patients sometimes just give up in despair." Such families have
- been known to drop their elderly charges off at hospital
- emergency rooms and then disappear. "It happens here probably
- once a month," says University of Chicago emergency-room
- physician Dr. Cai Glushak. "Before you can turn around, the
- person who registered the patient has gone. They've left no
- phone number, no address."
- </p>
- <p> Some abandoned patients are merely frail and suffer from
- the complications of chronic diseases such as diabetes. But
- more are clearly demented. They show up in emergency rooms with
- acute problems like dehydration. Elderly people who live alone
- are sometimes so desperate for help that they in effect abandon
- themselves. Others are dumped not by relatives but by landlords
- and even household employees. In Greenville, N.C., a
- 65-year-old alcoholic woman materialized on the doorstep of the
- Pitt County Memorial Hospital after she was shoved out of a car
- by a fed-up and weary maid.
- </p>
- <p> How widespread is the phenomenon of abandoned elders? The
- evidence is mostly anecdotal, and reliable statistics are
- elusive. Dr. Robert Anzinger, a past president of the American
- College of Emergency Physicians, estimates that between 100,000
- and 200,000 such individuals show up in hospital emergency rooms
- every year. "These are desperate acts," says Dr. Ellen
- Taliaferro, an emergency-room physician at San Francisco General
- Hospital, "committed by desperate people."
- </p>
- <p> Social workers understand that caring for an aging, infirm
- relative day in and day out drains families, not just
- financially but physically and emotionally as well. The wonder
- is that so many people willingly shoulder the burden with
- fortitude and grace. Noreen Maluchnik, head of the English
- department at Chicago's Resurrection High School, gets into the
- shower with her 77-year-old father in order to bathe him. Daily
- she helps her mother change his diapers, cut up his food and
- clean the bed linens, carpets and floors whenever there is an
- "accident." At times she wonders how to hold on to sanity.
- "Although I could never abandon my dad at a hospital or a
- racetrack," she says, "I can certainly understand the pressures
- that would lead another person to do something like this."
- Rather than renounce responsibility, caregivers often neglect
- their own health and risk ending up in hospital emergency rooms
- themselves.
- </p>
- <p> John King turned out to be a retired autoworker named John
- Kingery, 82, who in early March was placed in the care of
- Regency Park Living Center in Portland, Ore. For a year and a
- half he had lived at the Laurelhurst Care Center, another
- Portland nursing home. His daughter, a suburban Portland
- resident, removed him from Laurelhurst over the protests of the
- staff, then reportedly checked him out of Regency Park the
- morning of March 21. Half a day later, he turned up more than
- 300 miles away at the Idaho dog track; authorities are still
- trying to learn exactly how he got there.
- </p>
- <p> "To me, it's a sin and a crime," says Post Falls police
- detective Harlan Fritzsche, "but I'm left in a quandary." There
- is no law in Idaho against abandoning the elderly. But Oregon's
- Medicaid-fraud unit and the Washington County sheriff's
- department have launched investigations that may result in
- criminal charges. Among the questions under examination is why
- Laurelhurst did not receive Kingery's pension checks--which
- partly covered the cost of his care--for five months before
- his departure.
- </p>
- <p> Kingery's tale is drawing the attention of policymakers to
- the plight of people with devastating long-term illnesses and
- the limited options available to their families. Medicare, for
- instance, will pay hospital costs for acute illnesses but not
- for maintaining an Alzheimer's patient in a nursing home. Many
- nursing homes have neither the staff nor the inclination to
- provide advanced Alzheimer's patients with the exhaustive
- services they require. For families struggling to care for their
- own disabled, as an impressive four out of five now do, adult
- day-care centers can provide well-earned relief, but there are
- far too few of these (2,100 nationwide) to meet the need.
- </p>
- <p> Helping families care for ailing elders will not be cheap:
- a respite-care bill sponsored by U.S. Senator Bill Bradley
- carries an estimated price tag of up to $2 billion a year. But
- it is probably the most humane and cost-effective remedy for a
- growing problem. Today 4 million people in the U.S. have
- Alzheimer's disease. In the year 2050, there will be an
- estimated 14 million cases. By illuminating this frightening
- black hole in the nation's health-care system, John Kingery
- serves as a beacon in helping young and old alike search for a
- solution.
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